My bf had a huge ingrown hair, or what i thought was one (I swear I saw the hair in there), at the base of his shaft. He says it was caused by using a pump. It was so big that it caused a lump in his testicle. We had sex, a lot. Oral, anal, vaginal, with toys & without because we were high & not thinking. 3 days later, i wake up with every muscle in my body sore & achy, a throat infection (no swab taken) and what looks like hair follicles with hard crystals forming, the skin around one side of the pubic area red. 5 days after sex, the skin is red and sensitive, still only on one side but new "blemishes" pop up, the hair follicles are acting as if there's ingrown hairs (pressure & a small amount of puss releases), very tender. The throat infection is going away after being on antibiotics for almost 2 full days but the rash/ingrown follicles are still popping up. I have pictures of his & mine problem areas but can't figure out how to post them.